How can you tell if someone is an extrovert or introvert? It’s easy to spot an extrovert as they will likely come running over to talk at a party. They get their energy from other people and like to bounce ideas around. Being alone with their own thoughts is something they really fear – so expect them to be surrounded by a huge crowd most of the time.
For introverts, the reality is a lot different. They find the company of other people or being in large groups physically and emotionally draining. They enjoy complete solitude and taking pleasure in the ‘little things’ in life. The way they learn is by watching others first and then treading cautiously.
This is why it’s good to know before you enter a relationship who you’re going to be spending time with.
Psychologist David Sacks explained to Psychology Today, “Introverts are drawn inward to their thoughts and feelings and get their energy from time spent away from others, while extroverts plunge into the external world and are renewed by the experience. It’s easy to see how insensitivity to this mindset can lead to battles over how to spend time as a couple.”
Thanks to everything we know about Astrology, we can tie certain Zodiac signs and their personalities into either the extrovert or introvert pool. Here’s everything you should expect from each sign and their own individual quirks.
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24 Aries Girls Come Across As Extroverts But Secretly They Need To Recharge
True Aries girls are the great seducers of the zodiac because they are passionate and about almost anything. That much enthusiasm over what they love takes a lot of energy, so they regularly have to recharge after they have thrown themselves into the world with full force. This might come across like a hot/cold vibe but really it’s just the ‘me-time’ they need for themselves and nothing personal.
The up-side of this is that you’ll know just how close you are to an Aries girl depending on how she treats you during this recharging time.
If she allows you into her private space and invites you over for a quiet night watching Netflix or for a peaceful walk in the countryside, then she will want to hang onto you forever. Just don’t push her back into the big, wide world until she’s ready.
Famous Aries girls who will relate to the struggle are Emma Watson, Mandy Moore, Reese Witherspoon, Lady Gaga, Kourtney Kardashian and Mariah Carey. The ram sign enjoys demanding work so their ideal career would be a police officer, surgeon or in the military. They are most compatible with Cancer, Aquarius, and Pisces for a long-term match.
23 Aquarius Guys Prefer Individual Attention Rather Than Large Groups
Loyalty and honesty are two of the most important traits an Aquarius will look for when choosing who they like to spend time with. They prefer the company of a select few rather than large groups, but if they find that special person to fall for – then the rest of the world will be shut off completely. Aquarius guys are very creative, so they will surprise those they love with exciting last-minute trips away to rare locations.
One thing they can’t stand is disharmony between people, they are more of a peacekeeper. So the smaller their circle, the less drama they have to deal with. If you think playing the damsel in distress routine will work with this guy, you’ll actually find him running in the opposite direction. Instead, stand on your own two feet and act confident and he will naturally gravitate towards you – just be you.
Famous Aquarius guys who also know the feeling of searching for that special someone are The Weekend, Harry Styles, Ashton Kutcher, Ed Sheeran, Tom Hiddleston, Michael B. Jordan and Cristiano Ronaldo. Anything creative like working in broadcasting or photography is a dream job for them. They are best matched with Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn and will likely find their soulmate belongs to one of these signs.
22 Taurus Girls Are Extroverts – But Only Around Those They Really Trust
Taurus girls are true to their bull sign on the outside; they act tough, can walk the walk and have a lot of confidence. Yet, underneath it all, they are really hiding a much softer side and they crave intimacy and romance. When in large groups they like to observe but with those they really trust – they are more eager to take center stage. That’s why those who are close to them will notice how controlling they can be behind closed doors.
This is one sign that is rarely out of a relationship as they sometimes need to lean on others for emotional support.
Sure her temper can be difficult at times but once that storm has cleared, they make the most loyal and fun-loving partners.
Taurus girls are known for their classic beauty and famous women who fall under this sign are Audrey Hepburn, Uma Thurman, Kelly Clarkson, Jessica Alba, Penelope Cruz and Kirsten Dunst. They gravitate towards jobs like politics where they can take charge and have their voice heard. Their best love match is Cancer, Libra, and Pisces. But they can expect a lot of conflict with Gemini, Aquarius, and Leo.
21 Gemini Girls Get So Fired Up And Excited Very Easily
If there is one word to describe Gemini girls it would be: “Excitable.” She is spontaneous, ‘last-minute’, impossible to tie down and loves to travel. She will be that friend that calls you at seven in the morning to say, ‘Throw everything in a bag, we’re going on a trip.’ It’s very rare a Gemini girl will keep a diary because even she doesn’t know where she will be one day to the next.
She is such an extrovert that she needs a partner who will match her with energy and enthusiasm. If you’re feeling even slightly insecure, then the Gemini girl won’t be around to help heal your wounds. Being tied down and made to feel like she’s responsible for someone else’s happiness and well-being will leave her spiritual side feeling drained. That’s why she’s attracted to a partner that has a life of their own or is already successful.
Other thrill-seeking Gemini women are Natalie Portman, Angelina Jolie, Nicole Kidman, Marilyn Monroe, Kylie Minogue and Lana Del Rey. They make excellent journalists as they are not afraid to take risks or ask complete strangers personal questions. If they meet an Aries, Leo, Libra or Aquarius they are very likely to have a long relationship together.
20 A True Taurus Guy Loves The Spotlight And All Eyes On Him
Two words for the Taurus guy: confident and reliable. He is either your best friend or intense lover, he doesn’t care for small talk or short-term relationships. You’ll recognize a Taurus guy when he first walks into the room – head held high and looking immaculate. He’s a tough one to get close to at first but when you’ve finally got the bull to calm down, you’ll realize how exciting he is to have around.
Taurus guys really don’t like a lot of change going on in their personal lives, so he will keep the same friendship groups for years and work towards fixing problems in his relationships rather than calling it quits.
He’s the center of the group and likes to keep things stable and easy-going.
When thinking about your typical Taurus guy look to Channing Tatum, Travis Scott, Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, John Cena, Jamie Dornan, George Clooney, Henry Cavill and David Beckham who all fall under this same sign. Because of his love of the spotlight – any job that requires him to be on stage is the perfect career for him. They should avoid a relationship with Aquarius, Gemini or Sagittarius signs who won’t appreciate his attention-seeking ways.
19 Capricorn Guys Are The Natural Leaders Of The Pack
You can easily spot a Capricorn guy because he won’t be able to hide his enormous ego. They simply love to be loved and will do their utmost to win over those around them – even if they don’t respect them. If you ask him questions about his career, future plans or hobbies, then expect him to talk for hours about all his most recent accomplishments. If the subject of conversation is him – then he will love being in your company.
He is a natural leader and will offer advice to anyone who is under his naturally protective wing. He enjoys being the ‘go-to guy’ for all the important issues and he’s perfect in a crisis. However, he does have a jealous streak as he doesn’t like to share the attention with anyone else, so beware his mood when his power feels threatened.
Zayn Malik, Liam Hemsworth, Jared Leto, Bradley Cooper, LeBron James, and Eddie Redmayne all fall under this earth sign. Any career that means they have to crunch numbers is their dream and they make excellent accountants or financial planners. They don’t like taking risks – so a relationship with an uncautious Aries or Gemini might be troublesome for them.
18 Aries Guys Are Only Extroverts When They Are With The Right Person
Aries guys might appear sensible and mature at first but over time you’ll begin to realize they have quite the childish side. Once he begins to share this with you, you’ll know that he really feels safe in your company and he can totally be himself. You will know when he has fallen for you because he won’t want to spend a minute apart – there won’t be a minute of the day he isn’t messaging you to make plans together.
If he meets the wrong partner, he can be a pushover because he’s so passionate about providing those he loves with everything they want.
If you don’t take advantage of his generosity then you’ll eventually find he makes an ideal partner. You’ll start to notice the little things – like a note by the side of the bed or your favorite snacks in the fridge. Just don’t mistake his over-protectiveness for being too controlling or jealously – he’s only looking out for you.
Aries guys like Heath Ledger, James Franco, Charlie Hunnam, and Pharrell Williams also take care of those they are close to. They are attracted to a career that offers a lot of adventure and is best paired with Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, and Aquarius.
17 When Hurt, Cancer Girls Are Impossible To Get Out Of Their Shell
Cancerian girls feel emotions ten times stronger than those who fall under other signs. They are just like the symbol of their sign – the crab with a hard shell and soft underneath. It’s rare that they will show how hurt they are feeling in front of others, but behind closed doors, a harsh word or criticism can haunt them for weeks. They are known for being overthinkers. That’s why they hide away from the world until they’re ready to come back out of their shell.
On the plus side, they are excellent listeners and the perfect friend when you’re feeling down. They are so intuitive, you don’t even have to say exactly what your worries are as they already know. These tuned in ladies make great psychics and horoscope readers because they feel things differently to everyone else. They love sharing stories, so expect an invite to their home for a bottle of wine and a deep chat about everything that has been going on.
Other deep feelers are fellow Cancerians Selena Gomez, Olivia Munn, Michelle Rodriguez, and Sofia Vergara. Their dream career is either caring for children or a yoga instructor. Signs that will truly understand her are Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, and Pisces.
16 Scorpio Guys Act Like Extroverts But Deep Down They’re Soft And Shy
Scorpio guys are introverted to the point of mystery – everyone is always wondering exactly what is on his mind. Just like the Cancer sign, Scorpios also hide their soft side under a tough shell – so it’s no wonder these two are such a compatible match. Basically, Scorpio guys don’t like to mess up, so they take things very slow and are careful whilst calculating every move along the way. Then when they are ready to stun their prey with their tail, they can capture you in just one moment.
You’ll be able to spot a Scorpio guy from his deep penetrating gaze that never leaves you. He is born fierce but always plays by the rules. He’s not a risk taker and prefers a partner who is just as stable as he is.
You’ll know if he’s really falling for you if he changes his daily routine – which is nailed down to perfection – to include you in those plans.
Deep and mysterious Scorpios like Leonardo Di Caprio, Ryan Gosling, Ryan Reynolds, Josh Duhamel, Tyga and Adam Driver are all true to this water sign. Actor, private investigator or even therapist – anything that allows them to work people out is their dream career. They are best suited with Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn, and Pisces.
15 Leo Girls Need To Be Constantly Out And Having Fun
It’s true that Leo girls really are the life of the party. They like to feel in the moment and hate being indoors because they feel like they are missing out on making memories with close friends. A Leo loves to be in control, so when it comes to arranging the group trip, expect them to be the first at the airport with everyone’s tickets in hand and a schedule for the day ahead. They are organized but also know how to inject some fun along the way.
They are both creative and love being the center of attention, so they will always find new ways to make sure the spotlight is always on them. You’ll notice a Leo girl because she will constantly be surrounded by her girl pals – if any guy wants to win her hear then he’s going have to accept that it’s sisters before misters in her world.
Famous lionesses are Kylie Jenner, Meghan Markle, Jennifer Lawrence, Demi Lovato, Mila Kunis and Jennifer Lopez. They are attracted to professions in the beauty industry so they can spend time being around ‘the girls’ and catching up on all the gossip. They will make time in their busy lives for an Aries, Gemini, Libra or Sagittarius.
14 So Focused On Work – Virgo Girls Rarely Have Time To Party
Virgo girls are a mix of introvert and extrovert depending on what the situation is. At work, they are extroverted and throw themselves into projects, challenges and group work with full force. Yet behind-the-scenes, they need quiet time to plot their next step in complete world domination and this requires a lot of calculated moves. They certainly are a mixed bag – one night they are dancing on top of a bar and the next they are at home with their head in a good book.
Being a straight shooter, Virgo girls don’t like to mix their words and will honestly ‘tell it how it is.’
They are not afraid to criticize those around them if they don’t believe potential is being reached or offer advice. It’s a struggle for them to understand why everybody else doesn’t have the same energy for achieving their goals which can lead to frustration.
Powerful Virgo women are Beyonce, Blake Lively, Cameron Diaz, Jada Pinkett Smith, Jennifer Hudson, and Evan Rachel Wood. They excel at the top and are most likely to create their own independent business so they can have complete control. Signs that are perfect for them are Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, and Capricorn.
13 Libra Guys Have To Distance Themselves From Others
Libra guys really appreciate their alone time. They are a closed book and don’t open up easily, so if you want to know if he really does like you – it means turning full-time detective to hunt for the clues. He is naturally charming to those around him but when he really likes someone this goes to extremes – think flowers on your desk before you arrive at work in the morning.
Over time, his guard will go down and he’ll begin to share childhood stories or his hopes for the future with you. You’ll also notice a lot more affection like hand-holding and cuddles that weren’t there in the beginning as he tried to work out if he was ready to not feel so vulnerable anymore. If you have any PDA from him then feel secure in knowing that he’s absolutely hooked.
Famous Libra guys who also need plenty of alone time are Eminem, Zac Efron, Bruno Mars and Will Smith. They are attracted to jobs that allow them to take time making a decision, so they make perfect art dealers or interior designers thanks to their eye for detail. Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius signs are all perfect for a Libra guy.
12 Virgo Guys Prefer A Quiet Date Night To A Big Party
When Virgo guys find someone they enjoy the company of, they tend to just ditch everyone else as they are more comfortable one-to-one than in big groups. They are the kind of person that people complain will ‘forget about their friends’ once they have settled but really that’s just how they have always been. He is one of the most faithful signs on the planet, so don’t share any horror stories of cheating in the past because this is something he just can’t forgive.
Once you have won the heart of a Virgo guy, you will be left thinking how you ever lived without them because he’s one of the most dependable signs in the world.
They genuinely enjoy helping others and work hard as they don’t like to let people down. His happiness comes from those around him being happy.
Tom Hardy, Keanu Reeves, Chris Pine, Nick Jonas, Liam Payne and Prince Harry are all famous Virgo men. They don’t like to be the one running the show, so any career that allows them to support rather than lead is perfect. Leo, Gemini, and Sagittarius signs won’t fit with a Virgo as they might find the energy levels too low.
11 Libra Girls Are The Perfectly Balanced Introvert/Extrovert
Libra girls are one of those signs who are ‘friends with everyone’ as they are the perfect balance between introvert and extrovert. They are the balancing scales of the zodiac after all. It’s their natural charm that allows them to win over people in a heartbeat and it’s almost impossible not to like them. Because they have so many friends, their personality is fit to suit either a lavish and loud party in a club or just tucked under a blanket at home for a movie night.
You will be able to spot the Libra girl at any event because they never leave the house without every hair on their head perfectly placed and their clothes immaculate. They have been accused of OCD but they believe that dressing well is just part of their good manners. There will never be a day you catch them ‘off-guard’ looking anything less than fabulous.
Other balanced Libras are Kate Winslet, Marion Cottliard, Gwyneth Paltrow, Dita Von Teese, Candice Swanepoel and Kim Kardashian. They make excellent lawyers as they are able to see both sides of the argument and also are great problem solvers. Meeting a Gemini or a Leo sign could spell a perfect match for them.
10 Scorpio Girls Never Get Bored In Their Own Company
Scorpio women are unfortunately one of the most misunderstood Zodiac signs. They appear on the surface to be true extroverts – loud, funny, confident and unafraid. When really, all they want is to be back at home, snuggled up in bed with a good movie and plenty of comfort foods. Those who are close to them will understand this but for new relationships, they might give the impression that they are ‘pulling away.’
They are insanely stubborn too, so trying to change them is an impossible task that can end up leaving you feeling exhausted.
If you have a way with words and they trust you, then you might just be lucky enough to draw them out of their shell – but always be cautious of that sting in the tail if they feel you’re a threat to the time they like to spend alone.
Scorpio ladies like Scarlett Johannsson, Katy Perry, Rachel McAdams, Kendall Jenner, Winona Ryder and Emma Stone all know that their alone time is valuable to them. They have a lot of energy when it comes to working so any job role that’s demanding and long will suit their personality. Deep down they are searching for their ideal match which is either Cancer or Virgo.
9 Pisces Guys Love Being Lost In Their Own World
Pisces guys are that one sign that everyone accuses of ‘not listening’ or looking right through them but really they just find themselves lost in their own world. They are deep thinkers, slow to act and enjoy taking things at their own pace. If you’re the kind of person who is always in a rush to get somewhere then this guy will leave you infuriated. They still love very deeply and intensely but show it in a much different way.
Their symbol is a pair of fish and they are always searching for their soulmate. If they feel something isn’t right, they will drop a partner and adopt the mentality ‘oh well, there’s plenty more fish in the sea.’ Which is why they are known for leaving a path of broken hearts behind. Once you’ve managed to drag them into a shared reality, they make very loyal and caring partners. It’s just getting to that point which is the struggle.
Well-known Pisces guys who can’t be rushed into anything are Adam Levine, Justin Bieber, and Rob Kardashian. They are very talented artists because they take their time and obsess over the smallest details. They need a slow-paced Cancer or Taurus sign as their perfect match.
8 Gemini Guy Wants To Share Love And Laughter With Everyone
Gemini guys hate to be bored. They fill their life with people, love, and laughter – hosting parties and planning holidays so the fun never ends. Once left alone, they tend to go into a dark mood and crave the company of others. It’s very rare you will be able to get a Gemini guy on their own, so be aware if you enter a relationship with him, if you think three is a crowd then you’re in for a shock because he’s surrounded by dozens.
They are known within their friendship groups as being the one with the heart of gold and who would do anything for anyone.
They have to be careful though because of their ‘nice guy’ personality they can be taken advantage of at times. He doesn’t have trust issues but if you cross him once he will never forget it.
Other Gemini guys are Chris Pratt, Cillian Murphy, Kendrick Lamar, Johnny Depp, and Russell Brand. They are the jack-of-all-trades but any job that allows them to spend most of their time outdoors is ideal for them as they love being around nature. They are searching for their perfect sign and a Libra or Aquarius is the best match for them.
7 Sagittarius Girls Love Heading Off On Adventures To Meet New People
You’ll find that Sagittarius girls are so rarely on their own because they love giving all their attention to other people. The one thing they really do love is taking people out of their comfort zone and heading off on group adventures together. If there was one sign that would be the poster girl for being an extrovert – they are it. ‘More the merrier’ is definitely one of their mantras to live by.
They have a naturally curious side, so expect when they get you alone to face quite a lot of questions about yourself. It’s not that they enjoy being nosey, it’s more so she can understand your own journey and how she can fit into your world. Once you become close, you’ll be addicted to her wild side and understand her thrill for adventure-seeking more.
Sagittarius women like Taylor Swift, Nicki Minaj, and Miley Cyrus are true to their sign and are rarely seen without their huge entourage or close group of friends. They make excellent tour organizers or group adventurers and can always be found leading the group from the front. Their perfect partner would be someone who is just as sociable as them – like an Aries or Leo.
6 Capricorn Girls Are Introverts – But Don’t Even Know It
To know a Capricorn woman is to love her. They are smart, classy and a team-player but they also tend to put others before their own needs. Because of their popularity, they are often the life of the party which can cause them some conflict as really they are secret introverts. This is a sign that rarely gets time alone so they won’t be aware how much they would love to be on their own – because they just never are.
Their submissiveness can cause them problems as sometimes they find that the company they keep is not the best for them. Capricorn girls hate confrontation so they would rather go with the flow than kick up a fuss.
If they can find their voice and stick up for themselves then they’ll be able to find the right life balance.
Kate Middleton a.k.a The Duchess of Cambridge, Zooey Deschanel, Nina Dobrev and Kate Moss are all Capricorn women and secret introverts in hiding. They make the best teachers as they are charismatic and very intelligent, they also like to take those who are in need of their motherly wing. They need the good strong character of an Aries or Scorpio by their side to keep them happy.
5 If He’s Shy And Mysterious – He’s Probably A Cancer Guy
Once you first meet a Cancerian guy, you’ll notice his unique sense of humor first and expect him to be the life of any party. However, he prefers to stay hidden away from the world as inside he’s faced with a lot of insecurities. If he meets someone that makes him feel safe and secure, he’s more willing to come out of his shell but it’s an uphill battle. Expect when dating this guy to spend a lot of time indoors as his home really is his castle and he builds his walls high. He hates changes of scenery and is firmly stuck in his old ways.
He’s sweet-natured, considerate, and emotional in relationships. Most of his feelings stay hidden so those who don’t know him will find his ways quite mysterious. He doesn’t like to be challenged or changed so with this sign it’s a case of what you see is what you get.
Jaden Smith and Daniel Radcliffe are also famous Cancerians who will have a sensitive side. They are attracted to jobs with anything connected to history, so they make the best travelers and storytellers. Their ideal match would be with a Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, and Pisces.
4 Leo Guy’s Look Strong, But Deep Down They Are Insecure
Leo guys appear confident, tough, brave and extroverted but you will have to tread carefully as deep down they are known for their insecurities. The words they fear the most are, ‘You’re not really that great’ as their entire day is a battle between feeling like the King of the jungle and the anxious voices in their own head. They have a love/hate relationship with the spotlight depending on what kind of mood they are in that day.
Insecurities aside, they are natural romancers and enjoy the traditional approach to dating. They like dining out, holding doors open for their date and walking you home at the end of the night. They aren’t quick to push things further because, with this sign, it’s all about the chase.
What he is really looking for is someone to be his cheerleader and stamp out all those dark thoughts and doubts.
Ben Affleck, Chris Hemsworth, Shawn Mendes, and Cole Sprouse are all Leos and will know this well. Any career path that allows them to speak in public -actor, spokesperson or newsreader – is the perfect career for them. Those who can take on a bold Leo are either Aries, Gemini, Libra or Sagittarius.
3 Aquarius Girls Must Be Left Alone When In Their Dark Moods
Aquarius girls love to talk. They are happy to sit for hours with those closest to them and just listen to their stories and share some of their own. People always run to them in times of need or for advice, they are both friend and personal therapist all-in-one. Because so many people need their help, they often find this leads to emotional exhaustion which makes for a dark mood. Once they are in this low mood, it’s best just to leave them alone or they might lash out. It’s not that they mean to, just the exhaustion sets in.
They are blessed with a standout sense of humor which means once someone meets them, they will not forget the experience. Instantly likable and funny too – it’s a wonder why they are not a big fan of parties because they do so well at them.
Other famous Aquarius women are Oprah Winfrey, Shakira, Alicia Keys, Ellen DeGeneres, and Jennifer Aniston. Due to their helpful nature, they are perfect in a job that involves charity work or just helping others in general. Often they find it tricky to find a deep connection but Aries and Libra would be a perfect match.
2 Pisces Girls Are Deep Thinkers And Can Disappear For Days
It’s a tough job figuring out a Pisces girl because just when you think you’ve got to know her well – she will disappear completely for days at a time. They are intensely secretive and don’t like to share their whereabouts with anyone – in fact, they don’t really like to share at all and you’ll not squeeze many gifts out of them. They are very motherly but strict and keep their spending pretty tight. You can spot the Pisces at a dinner because they are the ones with the bill working out what they had to the exact dime.
Because they are so tight and strict most of the time, they enjoy the feeling of ‘letting themselves go’ and are known for their notorious binges.
If they kind find a partner who understands the highs and the lows then they are loyal until the end.
When you think of a Pisces woman, have Camila Cabello, Rihanna, Emily Blunt, Jessica Biel, Dakota Fanning and Drew Barrymore in mind. They are excellent with visualizing so a career in photography or filmmaking would be a dream for them. They should try to avoid a relationship with a Libra because they won’t put up with their disappearances.
1 Sagittarius Guys Will Always Leave A Party Early
Sagittarius guys are known as ‘The Archer’ of the Zodiac. This means they are a sharpshooter and rarely miss their target. They are able to achieve their goals quicker than anyone else, which means they won’t have to put in the same effort. At a party, they can win over the room and get the girl at lightning speed – so they are back in bed and relaxing before midnight. They can be extroverts but for a limited time only.
This is why their long-term partners can become frustrated as they believe the Saggaitrriaus guy is fun and flirty when as time goes on they find out they’ve settled for someone who is more like an old man. He just knows a sure thing when he sees one and takes his foot off the pedal once he’s settled.
Brad Pitt, Jake Gyllenhaal, Jamie Foxx, Nicholas Holt, and Charlie Puth won’t be the last ones to call a cab home either as Sagittarius guys they would have already made an early getaway. They would excel in a job that involves selling because they do have the gift of the gab. Their perfect match is an Aries or Libra, also they work well with a Leo – but won’t be able to keep up with the partying as much.
References: relrules.com, astrostyle.com